By Pie Tan
Marriage never gets me so excited ever since. I don't know why but that's how I feel about it. I just so love my surname that I don't even want to change it - and that's what getting married does.
During my teenage era, I planned not to get married before my 25th year and never even imagined seeing myself getting married before my 30th. I wanted to have my own happy family in the future but doesn't want to start with it. Sounds insane though, but that's how crazy my notions are, or maybe that's how an unready thought runs back then.
Perfect partners don't exist, only the right ones.
The right person will arrive unexpectedly, it is a destiny that will always find every possible way just to get right to your door steps. Lucky are those who already found their one true love whom they're going to annoy for the rest of their lives. That's how surviving relationship works, it requires love, trust, understanding, faithfulness and a bit of hilarious and nonsense fights.
Lasting relationship means helping each other grow, dreaming impossible dreams mutually, being mad as a hatter that only the two of you understand, getting tired arguing about same things again and again but is never giving up, fighting either over silly matters or for no reasons at all but never stops caring, getting jealous with almost everything but still the love never fades, teaching each other how to dance under the rain, storm and even typhoon, and side by side laughing whilst reminiscing all those crazy stuffs you did together.
When you found that right one who is wholeheartedly willing to accept and with immeasurable patience to understand your worst, hold on to that person, he/ she is worth keeping. You'll suddenly realize that you are now more than ready to face the "new beginning" with a "happy ending".
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